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Five Things You Can Do After the SCOTUS Ruling On Same Sex Marriage
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By Roger Hernandez
 
The internet is ablaze with news on the court’s decision that allows same sex couples to wed. In the midst of the discussion about what happened and how it affects Christians and churches, there are some things you can’t control. There are some things you can. If you are a Christian, there are five things you can do:
  1. You can have a great marriage.
It is certainly harder to make a case for the sanctity of marriage by a Christian church that has similar percentages of divorce than unbelievers. Love your spouse. Show the world that the biblical model works, it’s a blessing and can help you grow in faith. Pray with and for your family. Restore the family altar. Instead of interminably reposting articles, spend some of that time loving your spouse and praying for your kids. Not many people changed their minds because of an article they read. Many did because of a relationship they had and an example they admired.
  1. You can trust God.
You can disagree with the court. That is your right. You can express your concern. That is your privilege. Just don’t forget God was not surprised nor is He rendered powerless by a court’s decision. You can still trust God to work out whatever He chooses, however He chooses.
  1. You can be kind.
I perfectly understand the preoccupation that arises when what was, is no longer. I just pray we are kind. You can be principled and patient, courageous and kind, clear and loving. Remember that everyone is in need of grace, including yourself.
  1. You can remain calm.
One of the unfortunate consequences that happen during highly controversial times is the jumping to conclusions based on fear and speculation instead of facts. No one is coming to padlock your church doors this weekend. No one is forcing our pastors to marry same sex couples. Argentina and Canada allow it and our churches there still share the Word every Sabbath. That is not to say we should be silent or oblivious. We should practice what divers do when in a difficult situation: remain calm and work it out.
  1. You can continue to share the gospel.
A thought for my Adventist friends: The power of the gospel is incredibly more effective than any political strategy. If we believe that the gospel is not just the verbal assent to a doctrine but that it results in changed lives, wouldn’t it make sense to getting as many people as we can exposed to it as fast as we can?
 
Let’s pray that our mission is not detoured by the fixation on a decision. Share the gospel. Love your family. Live for Jesus.
 
Roger Hernandez is ministerial director for the Southern Union Conference